I paid for all bvacations/b, big ticket home items (furniture, TVs, etc.). He only had to get one Xmas gift and that was to me. He always got something at the last minute and never what I wanted. Never got a Mother's Day card or gift (he says I'm not his b..../b Update: 22 Yr One Side Love Affair, Lasr60637, Coping with Infidelity, 4, 01-09-2009 05:49 PM. My Three Year Old Son, Mrs. bNegestie/b, The Family & Parenting Forums, 8, 12-22-2008 04:29 AM. need help with 13 year old son ...